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Nourishing Yourself: Understanding the Importance of Self-Care

In our fast-paced, modern world, we often find ourselves caught up in the hustle and bustle of daily life, neglecting one crucial aspect: self-nourishment. Nourishing yourself goes beyond just feeding your body; it encompasses the holistic well-being of your mind, body, and soul. In this blog post, we will explore what it means to nourish yourself, how to effectively communicate nourishment & self-care, and what it looks, feels, and sounds like through simple self-care exercises.

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Holistic self-nourishment embraces physical, emotional and mental health.

I am a nurse who learned the importance of self-care the hard way through a back injury. The demands of shift work and chronic sleep deprivation had taken a toll on my well-being. My injury was a wake-up call that pushed me to step up my self-care game. This incident marked a turning point in my life, leading me to realize the importance of self-care not just for my patients but for myself as well. It was time to prioritize my own health and well-being, and in doing so, become a better, more resilient nurse who understands the benefits of self-nourishment.

What Does it Mean to Nourish Yourself?

Nourishing yourself involves more than just eating a balanced diet. It's about tending to your physical, emotional, and mental needs. Here's a breakdown of what it means to nourish yourself:

  1. Physical Nourishment: This includes eating nourishing foods, staying hydrated, getting regular exercise, and ensuring your body gets enough rest and sleep. Physical self-care can also extend to practices like yoga, meditation, and mindfulness to maintain a healthy mind-body connection.

  2. Emotional Nourishment: Acknowledging and processing your emotions is essential for emotional nourishment. This involves self-compassion, self-acceptance, self-forgiveness and seeking out activities and relationships that bring you joy and fulfillment.

  3. Mental Nourishment: Your mind needs stimulation, learning, and relaxation. Engage in activities that challenge your intellect and expand your knowledge, such as reading, puzzles, or creative hobbies. Mental nourishment also involves stress management techniques like mindfulness and meditation.

  4. Social Nourishment: Building and maintaining meaningful relationships is an integral part of self-nourishment. Surround yourself with people who support and uplift you and be sure to express your love and gratitude to them.

How Do We Communicate Nourishment in Self-care?

Nourishing yourself is a form of self-love, and it's essential to communicate this care effectively. Here's how you can communicate nourishment to yourself:

  1. Positive Self-Talk: Be mindful of the way you speak to yourself. Replace self-criticism with self-compassion and self-affirmation. Remind yourself of your worth and capabilities regularly.

  2. Gratitude Practice: Start a gratitude journal where you write down the things, you're thankful for. This simple exercise can help you focus on the positive aspects of your life and nourish your sense of contentment.

  3. Self-forgiveness: Forgiveness is an essential aspect of self-care and emotional well-being. It involves letting go of self-blame, guilt, or negative feelings towards yourself for past mistakes or shortcomings. Communicating self-forgiveness to yourself is a process that can be challenging but incredibly liberating. Self-reflection, journaling and support from a therapist or counselor can provide guidance & techniques to help you navigate this process.

  4. Self-Care Rituals: Create a self-care routine that you can look forward to. This could include a warm bath, a daily walk in nature, or setting aside time for hobbies you're passionate about.

What Does Nourishment & Self-care Look, Feel, and Sound Like?

When you achieve a balance of looking, feeling, and sounding nourished, you create a positive feedback loop where physical health, emotional well-being, and mental clarity reinforce one another. This holistic approach to self-care fosters a more fulfilling life, allowing you to thrive in all aspects of your existence.

  1. Look: Nourishment looks like a radiant and healthy physical appearance, a joyful and content facial expression, and a body that' moves through exercise and self-care practices.

  2. Feel: Nourishment feels like inner peace and contentment. It's the warmth of self-love and the absence of self-doubt. It feels like comforting energy and vitality coursing through your body.

  3. Sound: Nourishment sounds like the laughter of genuine happiness and the whispers of self-affirmation. It's the calmness in your voice when you speak to yourself kindly, and the harmony of your breath during moments of meditation.

When you take care of yourself in all these dimensions, you promote a harmonious state of being that enhances your quality of life.

Simple Nourishing Self-Care Exercises

Here are some self-care exercises that can help you experience nourishment in your daily life:

  1. Mindful Breathing: Take a few minutes each day to focus on your breath. Inhale slowly and deeply, exhale with purpose, and feel the calming effect it has on your mind and body.

  2. Gratitude Journaling: Write down three things you're grateful for every day. It could be as simple as a sunny day, a kind word from a friend, or a delicious meal.

  3. Self-Compassion Meditation: Find a quiet space, close your eyes, and repeat self-compassionate phrases to yourself. For example, "I am worthy of love and care," or "I am enough just as I am."

  4. Nature Time: Spend some time in nature, whether it's a park, garden, or simply sitting on your porch. Nature has a calming and grounding effect.

  5. Digital Detox: Unplug from your devices for a set period each day. This can help reduce screen-related stress and improve sleep quality.


Nourishing yourself is a journey of self-discovery and self-acceptance. By understanding what it means to nourish yourself, effectively communicating self-care, and embracing what nourishment looks, feels, and sounds like, you can lead a more fulfilling and balanced life. Remember, self-care is not a luxury; it's a necessity for your overall well-being. So, start today, and make self-nourishment a priority in your life.


About the Author

Penny Hyndman is an Advanced NeurOptimal® Neurofeedback Practitioner and a dedicated Registered Nurse at UR Wellness Neurofeedback Center. Her unique journey in healthcare and neurofeedback has instilled within herself a deep appreciation for the importance of holistic well-being and self-care. Her mission is to merge the realms of neuroscience and nursing, helping individuals optimize their mental and emotional health through innovative biofeedback practices. Through her work, she aims to guide others on a path to self-discovery, balance, and vitality.

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